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Our ups and downs
September 2011 October 2011 November 2011 December 2011 January 2012 February 2012 March 2012 April 2012 June 2012 July 2012

Connected 2-gether. ♥
B!
DEAR!

Our 10 Promises
1: We promise that when Shawn goes sailing, we will stay in contact. Whenever Shawn reaches a port o call, he will call Weixuan and Weixuan will pick up his call.

2: We promise to continue have faith in each other and our relationship.

3: We promise to try to get engaged when Shawn is 24 and Weixuan is 23 in 2017.

4: No matter how hectic our school curriculum or work gets, we will find time to spend with each other.

5: No matter what happens, we will find time for each other. And when either of us think too much and we will tell each other.

6: We must try and talk on the phone at least once a week no matter how busy we are.

7: If either of us thought of giving up in the relationship, we will tell each other and encourage each other through our journey of life be it school, career, family or friends.

8: When either of us becomes jealous, we will tell each other so as to avoid miscommunication and misunderstanding.

9: We will try to take care of our own body for the sake of each other. (MUST BATHE EARLY!!!!)

10: We must remember that we're in EVERYTHING 2-gether. ♥


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What you wanna know :)
Hey dear, i just type here what you wanna know luh. Dont know if you will seifor alnot but just try not to okay? :)
Sometimes I dont feel that i am your boyfriend because hmmm, how to say, like that day i came down to dover and your lesson extended? So I went home instead lo. Its like a wasted trip luh. So after that i met you right, you don't seem apologetic at all. Like i make an effort to meet you but you show me that no one ask you to go and find you that attitude. Most of the time i will ask, like how often will you like 'plan' when to meet me and stuff? Sometimes ya, you cannot blame me for being pekcek cos its natural reaction cos really like wasted trip. I don't wanna keep waiting like the last time because i learnt my lesson after the other time. I really am trying to control myself already to try not to blow up.
Another thing is that the things i gave you lo. Its saddening that you broken it or lost it. Its like you don't treasure the things i gave you? You just place it wherever it is? I do treasure the things you gave me lo. I know can't be helped but knowing your character, i know you just leave things around and then cannot find back. So can you like try and take care if things and not leave them as and where you like it? You dont like me losing your stuffs too right?
And ya, think i mention to you about it that you always arguing back to me right? Sometimes i really hope that i can talk to you nicely. Really dislike you arguing back. When you tell me stuff i do listen and never argue back. I think its basic respect. Dont you think so? I think its better for me to finish saying what i wanna say before voicing your opinions. I never don't let you voice, but after i finish talking.
Thats why sometimes i think that way lor. I mean i don't know because we are different. We think differently. You might think its always okay to change plans here and there, because you are not the one planning. Sometimes if i plan stuff and dont know where to go you will be like pissed and stuff. Sometimes i really don't know where to go muh. So hope you can understand. I already never blame you that you never plan stuff. So i hope you wouldn't take advantage of it. Sometimes i really don't understand what you are thinking also. Just that you get hot tempered very easily? And then i have to put up with it. Yes i can but sometimes if i happen to be in a bad mood too how? There's a limit to everything one muh. Ya la, i know sometimes i say things that make you angry, i know. Still trying to change the bad habit of mine. I know quarreling is good but from there we will know that we are both unhappy about something and trying to say things out. Sometimes i confide into someone else is to get more understanding about you and get wise advice. Sometimes give and take might be easy but its tiring all the time too.
I cannot expect you to think/feel like me but so sometimes i tell you got a reason. So sometimes i wanna meet you, even for like a while. But like you are not keen, so i am okay lor. Wanna talk to you and stuff sometimes. Sometimes seeing you will also be okay because you wouldnt meet me unless i ask. So yeah. Can't really express how i felt here but its about there. :)
Yours sincerely
12:35 AM | Saturday, July 21, 2012


Hey baby,
I just can't tell you what I really feel over the phone. 
I'll end up crying and not being able to talk.
I know you don't like it when I cancel things last minute 
but I hope you really can understand. 
If I could choose, I would definitely meet you
We haven't met these two days but I really don't have another day for my mum.
I didn't even tell her that I'm gonna meet you tmr
cos I know she would have told me to not meet you since we're meeting on tuesday.
I told her I would be in school for quite long.
I don't want her to have bad impression of you either.
She doesn't really like it the past many months, I have been accompanying you for dinner.
She doesn't see the need in me doing it 
and said that when I'm alone for a meal, she doesn't see you accompanying me. 
I told her because I didn't tell you.
So I really hope you can understand if I have to cancel things because of my mum.
And whenever I have cancel or change things last minute,
you'll say it's okay but you don't mean it.
I can sense sarcasm in things you say too and its really hurting.
I hate that felling D:


And I always wanted to learn knitting partly because I wanted to make you something you can wear when you are overseas but you rejected me straight so I felt really hurt D: 


I still love you a lot.
Thanks for tolerating my nonsense.
Yours sincerely
2:03 AM | Monday, June 11, 2012


Hey dear,
I just think our blog looks very empty, so here I am to type something out. I don't know if you still visit our blog alnot but it's okay, ultimately you will read this.
It's almost 1 more month left till I am going to sail, time really flies. I am not sure if there's any more quality time we can spend together. I guess school has lots of work to do, school still comes first so do your work yeah. We are only left with weekends, actually minus this Saturday cos you're not free and the 26 I am leaving so it's about 3 Saturdays left. See what I meant time flies? It may seem long luh, but it's actually very short.
You have to take care of yourself when I am not here uh. Bathe early!!! Don't be lazy.  Honestly speaking, though I am not here, I am mentally prepared for what's gonna happen. If some one nice comes along the way don't waste the opportunity okay? I will surely be sad, but nonetheless, give you my happiness. Feelings are hard to control, but just to tell you that if it really happens, please tell me okay? Don't let me come back and get a shock on my life. I really cannot take that kind of torture. :/ Must introduce him to me also uh, at least I know who is that. ;D
I will bring my lappy there. See if there's any wifi hotspot if I reach a certain country, if not I will buy prepaid and use. Better than nothing. If there's still time I will surely give you a call to know that I am safe and sound, so no worries one luh. Hmmm, I will be back in Singapore roughly around mid June and October before sailing to Aussie. See if I can take the time off to get off the ship and if you're free to spend some time with you.
Okay, lets enjoy the last 30 days. I am sure that we can create some happy memories before I sail far far away. No matter where am I, you will always be a part of me. We got together in an extraordinary way, so let this extraordinary journey be a stepping stone. May we have many many monthsary together. :D

Love you dear! <3
Yours sincerely
1:02 AM | Thursday, April 26, 2012


Love passage from the Bible! :D


1 Corinthians 13
New International Version (NIV)


1 Corinthians 13
 1 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
 8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
 13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Yours sincerely
11:51 PM | Tuesday, March 20, 2012


Our blog is so dead man! :X
Yours sincerely
12:54 AM |


:)
Hey dear, I guess you're sleeping by now already. I am writing here because I haven't really said how I felt. Anyway sorry to make you angry. I don't mean it either.
I know you are ending late.Didn't mean to chase you or something. Because I was doing my stuff till quite late, then I was sort of got chased out. Was a bit pissed though. And you never tell me anything and stuff. I was scared that we'll miss the train to Bishan, so I decided to call you and ask. The background was so noisy, so couldn't really hear. We usually have miscommunications on the phone though. Sometimes when you're busy, you don't tend to reply my msg. So I decided to call, like to check out some stuff. It's very worrying not knowing anything though. I feel really bad sometimes, but I am just concern for your safety. It's so late already so since I can send you home now then I'll try my best to send you home as much as possible. I hope you can understand. I wanna fulfil what I can do now then rather regret later.
I didn't mean for you to miss the Toa Payoh train home. You told me to meet you at 12. So I guess I reached there on time? I didn't know you'll reach earlier than me. I am not venting out my anger and stuff. It just came out from inside me. Just my character though, I'll try to change. I really couldn't control.
Sometimes I think that we just contradict ourselves. You don't like me to keep quiet and stuff, but you did back to me. It's really saddening to see that. Because you don't like it and you did back to me. I know you're angry, and I think that sometimes you let it run too wild that over rule yourself. It's like me asking you for lunch and I assumed that you knew. So just now you said you were eating cake and I seriously didn't know you were packing up. I cannot assume that you already eaten and ready to leave. I think it's like we contradict  ourselves. Anyway, really sorry for everything. Hope that we can enjoy ourselves later if you're reading this after you received my msg. :)


Lovely B! :)
Yours sincerely
2:20 AM | Saturday, February 11, 2012


20th Monthsary! :D
Heyyo dear! It's the 12 again, this shows how time really flies! Happy 20th monthsary, 611 days together. Thinking back 20 months back, the time when I wanna ask you to be together is so nerve-wreaking. :X It's after Mid-Year Exams that time and I was very scared that you'll reject me. Because thinking that after mid year was like my chances are gone. But well, you accepted me.
We do have lots of up's and downs though. We might get tired but we didn't give each other up. Though sometimes I told you that we need cooling period but actually I think that actually don't work out. I know sometimes we feel very 辛苦 but then we'll hang on right. I trust that and my feeling wouldn't go wrong. Anything must tell me okay? Don't keep to yourself and stuff. I've started to open up and I am proud of myself. I am very happy that we didn't break up though sometimes we have different thinking and argue at times. Hope we'll never break up. Lets last long long long!
Writing my 20th month letter on this blog more 环保 right? It's so much better than writing. But don't worry, I'll still write in case you miss my handwriting. Maybe the words got my smell? Who knows, maybe you take the paper and smell see got my smell alnot. Hahah! Crazy girl leiyy you. Sometimes I am damn smelly too eh. But you let me smell your socks, play with your little fingers and disturb you, very good already luh. Appreciate that, because it's fair ma! And and sorry if I am very demanding and stuff cos you're my GF ma and want to let you take good care of yourself.
Remember uh, 18 months to dye and 4 months to polish your nails.

Okay luh, Shall end off here already!
Love you lovelaye! From Lovely B! :D
Yours sincerely
11:13 PM | Thursday, January 12, 2012